Motivationals for Mom

Storms of Life

2009-04-02T14:06:00.000-07:00

We've had some very volatile weather lately. It seems that just as we get comfortable enjoying a nice, warm sunny day, darkness looms from the east and before we know it, we're grabbing umbrellas and running for cover. Wait. Did I just describe the weather or was that life in general? I don't know where you live, but in most areas of this earth, the climate very much resembles real life. Real life is a series of beautiful days marred by days of darkness and despair. While we soon know this to be true, if we begin to look at life as one natural disaster after another, we would stay in a continual state of despair. Likewise, we must realize that warm, sunny days are never here to stay and to believe that would surely bring a life of unfulfilled expectations. Not counting disasters that happen out of our control, humans have a way of bringing storms of hard times on themselves as well. Our family has endured some storms in the last few years, some of a natural disaster state, like the deaths of both of the patriarchs and some of the man-made variety, like the divorce of my son and his wife. With both events, our hearts grieved and, for a time, we thought life would not go back to "sunny" again. But, it did. We held on to our faith in God and we looked to our family and friends for support and, in time, we came to a place where the sun shines and we can smile again. The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 1:3 "All praise to the God and Father of our Master, Jesus the Messiah! Father of all mercy! God of all healing counsel! He comes alongside us when we go through hard times, and before you know it, he brings us alongside someone else who is going through hard times so that we can be there for that person just as God was there for us. We have plenty of hard times that come from following the Messiah, but no more so than the good times of his healing comfort—we get a full measure of that, too." What a great testimony to looking to God and friends to help us through hard times. If you are going through some difficult days, don't do it alone. Please tell someone that you love and trust. Ask God to put someone in your life to hold your hand. Then, give all of it to God.

Water Park Fun

2009-03-10T08:11:00.000-07:00

This was a fun weekend. I went with all ten grand kids and their moms to an indoor water park in Dallas, Texas. We were only gone for two days, but it was plenty of time to slip and slide our way into water park history. Yes, we did it all. I even did it all! Even the dreaded tornado ride! Actually, I was more leery of the cold water than I was the ride, but to my surprise the water and air temperature in the park was perfect. Not hot or cold--just right, like the baby bears porridge in the familiar children's tale.
I would be misleading you if I said the entire trip was perfect. No way! We had our share of fights to push the elevator button, what TV show to watch, and, of course, who would sit by who. You know, you've been there. But, here's the bottom line. Any vacation is just like life itself. There are great moments; those are the times when the video cameras run and the shining moments are captured. And there are moments when the cameras are turned off and everyone is in tears.
God never promised us a "no tears" day until the day we walk through the heavenly gates. He did promise us days when the water is warm and everything is good. He also promised us days when we are challenged to lean on Him to make it through. I love how Thessalonians 1:9 (The Message) says this to us, "So speak encouraging words to one another. Build up hope so you'll all be together in this, no one left out, no one left behind. I know you're already doing this, just keep on doing it."
Truly, life is full of ups and downs, like a slide at the water park, but we can help each other through the down times with words of love and encouragement. Think of someone today who needs your words of hope.

Hugs and blessings,

Chrys

God's Love

2009-02-02T05:13:00.000-08:00

Saturday I came home to discover my grand kids washing their dog in my ice chest. Poor thing. After all, it is wintertime and even in the south, it's too cold to run the water hose and wash a dog. Sadly, this creature was in desperate need of attention, so he wasn't complaining one bit. As you can see in the photo, he's a white longed-hair dog that winter is not kind to. He becomes a collection of everything sticky and muddy and was also in desperate need of a trip to the doggie beauty shop. In fact, according to many folks on our street, it bordered animal cruelty to NOT take him in. Finally, my son-in-law gave in and took him for some much needed grooming.

Like most of us after a trip to the beauty shop, he returned a new man. His hair was short, he smelled good, and he walked with a strut. Hence the kids were now proud to play with this clean-smelling, clean-shaven pet instead of shunning him like Sunday's left-overs. In reality, nothing really changed about the dog except his outside appearance. He was still the lovable dog he always was, who longed for a pat on the head every now and then.

What had changed was how we looked at him. Aren't you glad you serve a God who loves you in spite of the way you look? If the winter months haven't so kind to you either, God doesn't care. And I'm not really talking about the dry skin or the fly-away hair that winter brings. I'm talking about some behaviors that you might have put on that aren't too flattering on you right now. The good news is God sees past the mistakes you've made and right to your heart. God knows all of your hurts and hang-ups and loves you anyway. My grand kids waited for the dog to get clean before they were willing to clean him themselves. But God doesn't do that to us, He loves us just as we are. He continually cleans us with the blood of Jesus Christ.

I love how Romans 8:31 reads in The Message, "Do you think anyone is going to be able to drive a wedge between us and Christ's love for us? There is no way! Not trouble, not hard times, not hatred, not hunger, not homelessness, not bullying threats, not backstabbing, not even the worst sins listed in Scripture: They kill us in cold blood because they hate you. We're sitting ducks; they pick us off one by one. None of this fazes us because Jesus loves us. I'm absolutely convinced that nothing—nothing living or dead, angelic or demonic, today or tomorrow, high or low, thinkable or unthinkable—absolutely nothing can get between us and God's love because of the way that Jesus our Master has embraced us."

Wow! How's that for some comforting words. While a dog might find himself in poor favor with the family, there is absolutely nothing you can do to drive God's love away from you.

Just dwell on that today and you'll have a better day!

Hugs,

Chrys

2009-01-28T07:31:00.000-08:00

Last weekend I played in a tennis tournament in Mobile, Alabama. This particular tournament had players of all ages. I would say they ranged from early twenties to early seventies. It was so fun to see young men and women talking to seniors about their game. All barriers were broken as they shared a common goal--to improve their game and win!
One of the ladies on my team, who has played much longer than I, gave me some great advice. When a ball is questionable, meaning is it in or out, both sides of the net can get a little uptight. Trust me, I have seen some huffing and puffing on the court that rivals any two year old. But this tennis mentor told me to just make the call confidently and don't doubt your call. Then, she said, get in position for the next point.
It reminded me of another mentor in my life, my mom. She taught me that as a parent I needed to be confident in the decisions I make with my children. She said that children need a confident mother who isn't afraid to make decisions and then stand by those decisions. Over time I found that her advice was right on target. My children, and your children, will fare much better in our world, which is unsteady at best, if they have a mom who displays confidence. Confidence breeds security and children want and need to feel secure. Children thrive better when any routine is followed, such as bedtimes, after school lessons, etc. A confident mom is just another form of a routine. Knowing what mom will or will not do or allow in a situation helps kids feel loved and protected.
I'm not saying they will agree with all of your decisions, that would be way too much to ask for. I'm not even saying all your decisions will be the right ones. I'm just saying that right or wrong, your children will have a better chance of growing up confident and secure themselves if you project those qualities to them through your actions. So, the next time you're standing on the line, not sure whether to call the ball in or out---just confidently make the call and get ready for the next point!

Hugs, Chrys

PS. We came in second in our division! Hip, hip, hooray!

2009-01-21T06:57:00.000-08:00

I'm back! I've been away for a few weeks while we updated my website. So, I'm excited to be back with you and look forward to blogging often. My newest book, Motivationals for Mom, is now on the shelves. I hope you get a chance to look for it. I wrote the book because I know that being a mom is a hard job and YOU and I need all the encouragement we can get. Just this week at my mentoring group we discussed how hard it is for us to watch as our older children make decisions not in agreement with the plan we had for their lives. And I don't mean like what they wear to school. I mean choices that are clearly not in their best interest, like not even going to school or becoming rude and disrepectful to you. I wanted everyone in the group to realize that our job as a parent is to make sure our children are able to make informed decisions, even if they don't make the right one. You cannot guarantee right decisions, but you can guarantee informed ones. If you want your children to be aware of the pitfalls in life, you have to tell them what those pitfalls are and teach them a better way. If they choose the wrong path, you have the assurance that you taught them, but they chose differently and hopefully, they will one day turn back to a better way. After all, Proverbs does tell us, "Point your kids in the right direction--when they're old they won't be lost." Sometimes I have to grab a grandchild and point him or her in right direction as we're heading through the mall or at church. Let's all commit to pointing our kids in the right direction. Have a blessed day! Hugs, Chrys

2008-11-07T05:07:00.000-08:00

My daughter, Ashley was shopping with her son, Maddox. He was three at that time so she held him close to her as they made their way through the busy parking lot. They carefully navigated around the myriad of loose shopping carts, frantic moms trying to contain multiple kids, and the many wild-eyed drivers competing for the closest parking space.
To Ashley’s surprise, Maddox said, “Mom, you have to be careful.”
“You’re right, Maddox, you have to be careful.” she repeated his words, paying more attention to the task at hand than Maddox’s comment.
“No, mom! YOU have to be careful,” Maddox said, determined to get his point across. Finally hearing what he was saying Ashley replied, “Why don’t you have to be careful?”
“Because you’re holding me,” was Maddox’s simple answer.
You see, Maddox felt safe in the arms of his mother. He didn’t have to worry or be careful; that job was being taken care of for him by someone he trusted because he knew she loved him. Do you remember that feeling? I do. I remember late at night, when I was in bed, feeling safe and secure because my Daddy’s room was just two doors away. And my Daddy loved me and would protect me.
Unfortunately, as we grow older, the worry and stresses of life become familiar waves that crash over us; the least of them a runaway buggy in the busy parking lot. It’s in those times and everyday that we still need a father’s loving arms to protect us and make us feel safe. Over and over in Psalms, David sings of a father’s love and protection we all can access. Psalms 59:16 says, “I will sing of your strength in the morning. I will sing of your love: for you are my fortress, my refuge in times of trouble.”
Moms, you have a huge responsibility keeping your children safe from runaway buggies and so much more. You wake up everyday with a list of worries so long it makes you want to pull the covers back over your head. But, don’t. Wake up to a new day. Sing of God’s love for you and know that He is the proud papa who is ready and willing to wrap you up in His arms and hold you close to His heart as you cross the busy parking lots of life.

2008-10-28T15:35:00.000-07:00

I remember my mom saying to one of us six kids when we were young and obviously unhappy about something, “Get a smile on your face.” When I became a mom I also said those words. Perhaps you have said them as well or something similar. I also remember my dad saying “Straighten up!” to any child who seemed sullen for no reason. Again, as a mom, I’ve said those words. Both admonitions are attempts to get children to have a better attitude. But, of all the things my parents said to me to convince me to behave in a better way, it was the things they didn’t say that influenced me the most. It was how they acted in times of adversity. I’m sure you have heard the challenge to act your way into a better way of thinking. Many, many times I witnessed my parents receive bad news or encounter unpleasant circumstances and still approach the situation with a positive spirit and a God-honoring attitude. Life is like a roller coaster ride. As soon as your stomach is back in place and the ride is fun, the next dip occurs. How can we possibly be asked to keep a good attitude when life is so uncertain? And what does a good attitude mean anyway? An attitude is a term that refers to our likes and dislikes for a person, behavior, or event. Attitudes can be positive, negative or neutral. In children, the attitude in itself doesn’t appear to be the problem; it’s the behavior the attitude invokes that causes the problem. Your child may not like green beans and that’s fine, but he can’t throw them against the wall (at least, I hope he doesn’t do that!) But, here’s what should occur as we mature. God doesn’t just want our behavior to change; He wants our heart to change as well. It isn’t good enough to just “act right” God wants us to “think right.” Peter plainly tells usin I Peter 4 that Jesus went through everything we could ever go through. I know it’s hard to imagine Jesus going through the trials us moms go through. First of all, he never sat up and worried about a sick child. Wait, what about Lazarus? But, did he never have to worry about putting food on the table when money is short? Oh yeah, he did feed 5000 of his closest friends with nothing more than a few fish and bread. But he never faced the challenges of dealing with his kids’ different personalities. No, but he did have twelve very unique personalities chosen to follow him and lead others to him. Life is not easy, but with a few attitude adjustments, life will not only be more enjoyable, you will be able to show others how God can work in your life. Give yourself an attitude check. Yell at the top of your lungs, “Attitude check!” and then answer yourself with a loud, “I feel great, oh, I feel so great!” And mean it!

Hugs, Chrys

Thought for the Day
Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.
W.W. Ziege

2008-10-20T11:11:00.000-07:00

“But, mom, please let me go over. Her mom said it was okay.” I can still hear the pleading voice from my daughter who had discovered a friend across the street. I confess. I knew in my heart she would eventually leave me for other playmates, but I thought she would wait until she was at least fifteen. But the calendar had marched on and my little girl was now four years old. She was no longer happy with me as a playmate or our yard as her playground. No, she had visions of a world that existed across the street. But I wasn’t ready. I hadn’t prepared her. I needed more time! You see, what my daughter didn’t know was I had been watching the little girl across the street for a few years now. At six, she was an older woman and much more street savvy than my daughter. She obviously had permissive parents as she was allowed to ride her bike down the street! And to top it off, she had an older brother. Everyone knows that any kid with an older sibling knows more of the things you don’t want your kids to know more about, right?
“What do I do?”
“How could I tell my daughter that I don’t want her to be friends with our
neighbors?”
“Should I see if my husband wants to buy acreage in country?”
These questions and more kept me awake for many nights until I decided that I was an adult and I could figure this out.
As I evaluated my dilemma, here are the things I knew for sure. I wanted my daughter to have a healthy understanding of how to choose good friends and how to be a good neighbor. I didn’t want her to ever go to off with a stranger or into someone’s home she didn’t know. So, it was up to me to teach her how to be a friend and who to be a friend with. And, one more thing, I didn’t want to move to country!
So I adopted a survival strategy that helped me cope. Maybe it will help you as you navigate through of scary waters of friends and strangers.
First, I had to open my heart. I realized my heart wasn’t very receptive to this new person in my child’s life. Whenever our hearts are closed to something, generally fear is one of the reasons for the closure. And, it was true it this case. Fear was keeping me from opening my heart to someone who might need a good role model in her life. I also realized that while it was true that she was a few years older than my daughter, she was just a child, she wasn’t a dragon! And I realized it was important for me to let my daughter see me acting kindly toward this neighbor.
Next, I had to open my door. One thing I realized early on is some mothers are quite willing to let the playing go on at someone else’s home beside theirs. Take advantage of this. I know it’s a lot more work for you, but if the kids are at your house you don’t spend hours worrying about them. It will be worth the extra time you have to spend cleaning up at night to get a good night's sleep. And don’t be afraid to implement your house rules with the neighbor kids. I used to say it like this, “At our house, we don’t do such and such.” That way it lets other children know that they may act a different way at their own house, but at your house, they must follow your rules. And it doesn’t have to be said in a mean way, it’s just a fact. For instance, I never and I repeat, never, let children play behind a closed door. It was a rule in my house. So if they tried to close the door, I would just open it and say, “In our house, children do not play with the door shut.”
And lastly, I had to open my Bible. I don’t mean I literally had to keep a Bible open when friends are over, but I also didn’t shy away from teaching Biblical principles when the opportunity arose. I always thought my best chance of teaching a parent would be through teaching a child. Again, this can be very subtle with the words you use. For instance, I would say, “At our house, we always pray before we eat. It’s a chance for us to thank God for everything He has given us.” Another way is to read a Bible story when friends are over. Kids love to be read to. It’s a natural way to get some Bible principles into your children as well as the neighbors. And, of course, there are many great videos to play while friends are over that reinforce the behavior that you expect your children to use.

I hope some of this is helpful to you as “be a good neighbor.” Remember you can not and should not take away every unpleasant experience your child will encounter. Those experiences are very important teaching tools of life. But, as the mom, you can lead and guide your children to make good choices in their friendships by opening your heart, opening your door, and opening your Bible.

May God continue to bless you as you make a difference one kiss at a time,

Chrys Howard

2008-09-29T05:01:00.000-07:00

On a recent business trip, we had a beautiful hotel room. It was very well equipped. As a matter of fact, I couldn’t remember the last time we stayed in a room with a real makeup mirror. I was very excited about this addition to our room thinking that, like the Jefferson’s on the old television show, we had moved-on-up! But the bathroom was poorly lit, so I decided to take the fancy mirror into the bedroom and sit by the window. I got all nice and comfy, eager to leisurely apply my makeup while I listened to the daily news.
The make-up mirror had two sides--one that is a normal view and one that magnifies. Knowing which side would be the best call for me, I quickly flipped the mirror over to the magnified side. Then I grabbed my eyeliner, looked into the mirror, and almost screamed in horror. Every imperfection on my face was as prominent as a black worm on a yellow rose. At first, I wasn’t sure where to place the blame—was it the magnified mirror or the light coming through the window or was I just that bad!
As I forced myself to look back into the mirror, it soon became apparent that the most condemning thing was the light coming in the window. I noticed that if I just moved the slightest bit, keeping the light from coming in directly on my face, I looked so much better. Then it hit me. The Bible mentions the word “light” a few hundred times so obviously there is a lesson to be learned. Psalm 118 tells us that God MADE his light to shine on us. So what kind of light could be shining in my window to make me look so awful? Well, there are two lights we are exposed to each day. One is the light of the world and the other is the light God made for us.
When we view things through the light of the world, an unforgiving shadow is cast on whatever it is we are viewing. But if we view those same things through the light of God, a forgiving shadow is cast and we, the object, appear softer and smoother. The world’s light does nothing to bring out the best in us. It is dimmed by tragedy and heartache and rarely does it want to show the good in people. It wants to make any imperfection in us appear larger.
As a busy mom, sometimes it’s hard to see yourself through the eyes of God. Your job is demanding, your children are demanding and sometimes even your church activities are demanding. You, no doubt, question your decisions a few hundred times a week and world bombards you with it's view of what's really important. But God is faithful and loves you unconditionally. He doesn’t shine his light on you to show your imperfections; rather he shines his light on you to show his perfection. His perfect love and grace cover you and make you perfect in his eyes.
Bathe in God’s light as it is richly poured over you so you will shine like the stars in universe. And there’s no brighter star than being a mom. Allow God to show you that being a mom is a job of huge importance and significance. Enjoy today, embrace it--even if it brings stress and confusion. It’s the day the Lord has given you and he will redeem it for his mighty purpose.

Hugs, Chrys

2008-09-23T05:07:00.000-07:00

There’s got to be a lesson here. It’s a sign of the times for sure, but it’s more than that. Here’s what happened. While driving home from work, I was listening to the news. When I didn’t quite catch what the newscaster said, my instincts took over and I reached for the dial on my car radio in order to rewind the program and hear it one more time.
Okay, I know, it can’t be done! I literally shook my head in horror as I realized what I had just done. Has the ability to record any show on TV given me silence permission to rewind everything in life and see or hear it again? After all, instant replay is now an accepted form of determining close calls at many sporting events. I’ve even been known to glance up in search of a TV screen after an amazing play or a close call at a local high school game anticipating seeing it again.
Well, what’s the lesson here? Is there one? As moms, there will be plenty of times when you want to push rewind and see an event all over again. Like, the first time you held your babies. Wouldn’t it be fun to just do that one more time? But there are also plenty of things you don’t want to see again. Like, the time one of your children was so sick you walked the floor for hours, maybe days. Or maybe the time you lashed out unfairly at your husband for not helping you. Maybe the better scenario would be to see the event again as well as have the ability to change the outcome. Now that would be nice, wouldn’t it?
But that’s the difference in real life and a DVR–ed life. The DVR life can only show you the exact thing over and over again. That would be perfect if life were exactly that—perfect. Since it isn’t, there will be many experience in life that seeing it again will only bring pain and regret. A DVR-ed life will never give you the opportunity to correct a mistake. But real life does. How, you say? Well, we really can’t go back and rewrite a new ending, but we can always have new beginnings.
Aren’t you grateful that we serve a God of second chances? A beautiful blessing from walking with God is the power of redemption. Webster’s dictionary says to redeem is to win back or buy back; to free from what harms or distresses. We first come to know God’s redemption in the Gospel message. It is through Christ that we have “redemption, the forgiveness of sins.” (Eph. 1:7; Col. 1:14) God, in His goodness and greatness, buys back the mistakes we make and hurts we suffer and frees us from them so we can begin anew everyday. What an awesome God we serve!
So keep the DVR and video recorder going for our favorite TV shows, but let’s soak up the redemptive love of God and let him lead us to a better life.

Hugs,

Chrys

2008-09-15T15:54:00.000-07:00

Many days I have had holes in my finger. Oh, not big holes or anything major, just small ones; several small ones. How does that happen, you ask? Well, I spent many days making old things become new. One morning twelve dresses lay in a pile in various stages of despair; one dress I felt certain to be destined to the toy bin for playtime use only. But at the end of the day, I held twelve beautiful little dresses -starched and ready to wear. Thanks to a very sharp needle, various colors of thread and my, by then holy fingers, these dresses, some 25 years old, are as good as new. To explain the holy fingers I need to tell you non-sewers that in hand stitching as you push the needle in the fabric with the tip of your finger, it also tends to push a hole in your finger. That day, after repairing twelve dresses and hemming two pairs of pants, I was certain that a drink of water might also allow me to water the plants!
But it was a task I loved doing. Those handmade dresses had been worn by so many little girls and it showed. Little shoes had torn the hems, Sunday lunches had left their mark on collars, and unauthorized play times had taken its toll on side seams and sleeves. I have to admit these dresses were sad, but as I mended them I smiled thinking of my daughters, nieces, and granddaughters who had already worn them. I could see them running in the parking lot eager to get to Bible class or to a wedding, climbing over church pews, smiling for a camera trying to capture a time that would never happen again and just laughing.
They were always oblivious to the work that had gone into the dress they wore. Sometimes I would see them chasing each other wearing a dress I had spent hours carefully smocking and stitching. As one pulled on the other’s dress I wanted to shout, “Be careful. Slow down. I worked really hard on that dress.” But, I just let them run and play.
I suppose that’s how God must feel. He watches us run through life and we get sort of beat up and He wants to shout, “Be careful. Slow down. I worked really hard to make you.” But He doesn’t. Not in that way. You see, as humans we have to work backwards. I have to wait for the dress to get beat up before I can to sacrifice my fingers to repair it. Not so with God. We begin our life with God’s sacrifice for us already in place. The holes in His son’s hands were made long before we were tattered and torn, yet it’s those holes that give us the joy of being made new every day. Many days our hearts our ripped and torn by life. God carefully stitches us back together and we begin each day in God’s hands, not as good as new, but as if we were never torn to begin with--absolutely brand new.
I love this scripture in Ephesians. “And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with Him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages He might show the incomparable riches of His grace, expressed in His kindness to us in Christ Jesus.”
Moms, God continually raises you up. On days when the laundry is high, you are raised up higher; on the days when the rent payment is high, you are raised up higher; on the days when the job list is too high, you are raised up higher. God’s unconditional love raises you up and gives you the power and strength to meet any obstacle!

Have a great day celebrating God’s unconditional love for you! Hugs, Chrys

Plan A, B, and Beyond!

2008-08-24T13:53:00.000-07:00

Thanks to the computer age we now live in, I was able to work at home on a lazy, rainy day in Louisiana. It was a school holiday, so I wanted to be available to spend some time with my school age grandkids. Four of my young grandkids spent the morning with me watching movies in my game room—a perfect activity for a rainy day. I answered emails and finished a few deadlines.
By noon, the kids were restless. The clue was when I went into the game room to ask what they wanted for lunch and found three of the four with pillows in their hands and that look in their eyes that said, “Attack!” Time to do something else, I decided.
So, I called the other grandkids that were not at my house already and arranged to take seven of them to the movie Also, a perfect activity for a rainy day. I buckled everyone in and off we went to see the latest kid movie. The rain poured as we drove to the movie theater. Once again I thought I had made the perfect choice for the day. But, so did several hundred other moms and grandmas. The parking lot was full as I searched for a parking space. I rushed everyone out of the van, into the rain, and into the movie lobby. It wasn’t until we reached our destination did I see the sign: SOLD OUT! Not what I wanted to see.
I quickly surveyed the other movies and times, hoping for something just as good as our first choice and starting NOW. No luck. Now the kids had that panic look in their eyes that told me I needed to think fast. I had seven kids, rain outside, and all their moms had gone on to do other activities for a couple of hours. We ran back to the car with me thinking of Plan B-the Jungle Gym. The Jungle Gym is usually not open on Mondays, but I began praying that someone in charge over there knew this could be a money making day for them and they opened anyway. The Jungle Gym is our local indoor park facility where the kids can do what their slogan says, Run Wild. My prayers were answered, the gym was open, and kids had a great time running wild for two hours.
Here’s the lesson. Don’t be afraid of Plan B. As a matter of fact, embrace it! Very few of us get to live our lives in Plan A and many of us are so far down the alphabet that even Plan B is a distant memory. The important thing to remember is that you serve a God who is in every plan of your life. From A to Z, He’s got you covered. I know sometimes it’s not easy. Perhaps, you have three kids when you thought you would only have two. Or maybe you have to work when your dream was to be a stay at home mom. Or, your husband’s job moved you away from your family or an illness has you living life from the sideline instead of on the playing field. Whatever the scenario, trust God when He says to you, “I know the plans I have for you! I have plans to prosper you and NOT to harm you…I have plans to give you hope and a future.” So, if you find yourself on Plan B or even Plan Z, know that God is in on those plans!

Have a great day.

Hugs, Chrys